10 Best Couples Sex Toys & How to Use Them
This little beauty is designed to sync with music, so you can enjoy a hands-free experience while you play your favorite songs. And with up to 5 hours of continuous play, you can keep the party going all night long. From hands-free vibrators to clenched-Kegel dildos, we think these are the best toys to explore with your best bed friend. And you’re a little nervous about asking them to branch out and experiment with you, lean into it — the nerves will bring some adrenaline and might just make the whole thing that much more exciting. For this story, she interviewed experts, researched dozens of sex toys online, tested many herself and read through hundreds of online user reviews to pick the best of the best.
The other (a.k.a. the handle) is a 5.75-inch long dildo with a motor inside that enables it to vibrate, twist, and twirl, so it can also target your G-spot—talk about multitasking. And since each side has a separate motor, you can use them independently. To help you out, we created the ultimate list of our very favorite sex toys for all.
In 200 AD, doctors prescribed female genital massage as a form of treatment for hysteria (ugh, don’t get me started). But in what was one of the least surprising moves of all time, they complained that the method was “too labor intensive” and “messy” and put an end to it. The hand crank—the earliest constructed sex toy—came along in 1890, and it was followed by a number of similar inventions, like 1904’s gas-powered “Pneumatic Detwiller” and 1920’s porn-inspired “Polar Cub Electric.”
Simply place the vibrator in the included lace knickers and give the remote control to your partner, who can use it from up to eight metres away. Hand the reins over to your partner with this innovative app-controlled vibrator from Lovense. The app controls can work from any distance too, so long-distance couples can get in on the fun.
If you do have this amazing little gadget on full power for 30 minutes on your clitoris—or whatever body part is your main avenue to climaxing—you’ll be inundated with orgasms. At just three inches in length, it’s about two-thirds the size of the original Vesper and Vesper 2. This sex toy does have a higher price than the original, but considering that my Vesper from 2014 is still working—it’s a worthy investment. You’ll also get to be part of a club of bold and fearless people who know that sometimes, the best place for your favorite vibrator is around your neck.
“I really like the ones where the internal and external parts can be controlled separately,” sex writer and sex toy reviewer Amy Norton says. This sleek U-shaped vibrator is a game-changer for shared pleasure, according to our panel. The longer arm can be inserted into the vagina and used to stimulate both the G-spot and penis, while the outer arm vibrates against the clitoris. It has a motor at each end and nine increasingly powerful settings – from a gentle murmur to deep rumbling vibrations – for heightened pleasure during intercourse. The lightweight design and travel pouch make it a worthy companion for holidays, and it can be used in the bath or shower. The battery life (one hour) isn’t the longest, but this wouldn’t put our panel off using it time and time again.
We’ve rounded up the best sex toys for couples, including remote control vibrators, anal toys, travel-friendly toys, and more toys that will make your next encounter extra-thrilling. Whether you use these sex toys for masturbation or partnered sex, the important thing is that you feel good and safe. “So much about women’s pleasure has to do with the context of what’s going on viberator,” says Dr. Torrisi. “It’s important for women to feel safe with their partners and to reliably predict that a sexual encounter will be fun and pleasurable.” This genre of sex toy will always be GOATed to me , because the realistic design elements make them feel extra kinky and fun, especially if you’re bringing them into partner play (talk about a soft-launch threesome).